Well, I was reading the latest copy of
Your Bristol & Somerset Wedding magazine the other day and they had a great article about the history of wedding traditions...so I thought I'd share a few of them with you!
Colour Code - Contrary to popular belief, the white wedding dress is a relatively new tradition. It was first made fashionable by Queen Victoria who broke the royal tradition of wearing silver when she married Prince Albert in 1840. Victoria wannabes soon followed suit, deeming it proper for a bride to be clothed in the colour of purity. Before this brides would happily marry in a variety of colours. However, green has long been considered the most unlucky of colours; a bride's green dress was said to be sign of her unfaithfulness, grass-stained from rolling around in the fields with a mystery lover!
Just Married - The tradition of tying tin cans to the back of the couple's car as they leave for their honeymoon has an interesting history. The cans have actually replaced old boots, a practice which is thought to have originated during the Anglo-Saxon era, when the groom would ritually strike his new bride with a shoe to demonstrate his authority!
Bridal Shower - Traditionally, rice, nuts and seeds were thrown over the bride and groom as they left the ceremony to promote fertility; the life-giving kernels were believed to rub off onto the couple. A more romantic substitute of sweets soon grew popular (the word 'confetti' derives from the Italian for 'confectionery') and nowadays of course, we opt for a somewhat safer sprinkling of petals.
Under Cover - The veil pre-dates the wedding dress by centuries, and there are a few possible explanations for its initial use. The first harks back to the days of arranged marriages; the groom would not be allowed to view his bride before the wedding day, just in case he didn't like what he saw and ran for the hills! The veil would conceal the bride's face, and thus save her from this horrific rejection. Another explanation is that the veil would protect the bride from evil spirits; once married she was able to lift the veil in favour of a new protector - her husband.
Something Old, Something New - This is the most popular of all wedding rhymes, but what does each element stand for? Something old, traditionally a garter, represents a continuation of the bride's virtuous past; something new stands for future prosperity; something borrowed embodies the importance of friends in times of need; and something blue, a custom carried over from ancient Israel, represents purity.
The little-known fifth element to the rhyme, a silver sixpence in her shoe, signifies future wealth. Although this line was dropped when the coins fell out of existence, enthusiasts still buy reproductions especially for their wedding day!